Oklahoma

We had a great time visiting last week. It was not the trip we planned, but it all worked out. We had planned on taking the kids to the zoo among many others things but when you have 2 kids sick it just doesn't always work out. Ethan came down with strep and Elise had a fever that topped at 104. So we spent 2 days at the doctor but it was nice to visit with our old pediatrician and ran into old friends. Actually the whole trip was more meaningful. We got to see the kids so happy just hanging out with their grandparents, aunts, and uncle which really makes you stop and realize just how important family is.

My dad was so happy just to sit in his living room and talk with us. We had good conversations not forced or generic, very genuine. When we left he seemed so sad to see us go. I have never been good with goodbyes yet I am very aware how important it is to tell someone that you love and appreciate them. My 94 year old grandma looked so weak and lonely it was hard to tell her goodbye. She was so happy just to get hugs from the kids. I was so proud of them. Ethan really showed me just how caring and thoughtful he CAN be. He offered to get her things without me even mentioning it. He is becoming very aware of people and their feelings but still loves to annoy his sisters.

I didn't get to visit with all my aunts, cousins, and friends as I really wanted too but that's what is so wonderful about having such a great family. I know they understood and next time will catch up. I do really miss Oklahoma the weather was so warm, the trees were budding, the flowers were out, and spring was there. Here in Iowa we're still waiting but at least it's starting to warm up!:)